The Connection Between Bedroom and Happiness

November 23, 2021


 I know this is a controversial topic, but I feel like if you want to get a good night’s sleep, you can’t be happy unless you’re sleeping. A lot of people don’t realize this, but it’s not a bad thing. It’s more that we don’t realize how sleep is so important to happiness. It gives you time to be with your spouse, or a child, or your significant other.

I know I’ve been guilty of this myself.

I’ve been a very unhappy and unfulfilled person for years because I was so afraid I’d wake up some morning and find myself miserable and lonely. But I’ve realized that the key to happiness is simply knowing that you have a choice. I’ve been learning how to be happier by simply making a choice not to make it anymore.

I've been trying to be happy, but sleep has been my biggest obstacle. The fact that bedtime and sleep are a thing that I have to get from my parents when I was a kid, and I couldn't or didn't want to when I was young, has made it very difficult for me to be happy. The only way I think I get happy is just by setting a goal and then trying to meet it.

That's the key though.

To not make it mandatory for you to get your happiness. To think instead of, "I have to get my happiness." If you're truly trying to figure out what you want, you can be just as happy as the person who's telling you to not do it.

What I love about Bedroom is that it's a place where you can be yourself. You aren't going to find your true self in a room, that's just the truth. If you only go to bed when you're stressed, you might find yourself being a pain in the butt. I love the fact that you can wake up in a room where you don't feel like you have to follow someone's every whim.

I love the way I feel when I stay in bed. I don't know why I'm always so excited to go to bed, or what I'm thinking about when I'm not in bed, but I feel great.

You may not find your true self in a separate bedroom, but do you ever feel like you're just another part of your bed?

I don't think so. I think many people are still trying to hide the fact that they have a different type of relationship with their bed.


As I’ve said before, we all have different types of relationships with our beds. Some people feel like they’re sleeping with themselves, others feel like they’re sleeping with a bunch of people, and others feel like they’re sleeping with their bed. But most people I’ve talked to feel like they’re sleeping with their bed. Why? The one thing we all have in common is that we all sleep.

I know this might be something that has been talked about for years.

But I think it is so important to realize that our bed is just a piece of furniture that allows us to sleep. It isn’t a place in which we create relationships with other people. It is a place in which we sleep. So we spend a lot of time talking about how to make our beds, but the truth is that the way we sleep is the way we make our beds.

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