Let’s Admit It: Everyone Secretly Hates Related

November 22, 2021


 If you’re like me, you have a pretty good idea of who your friends are, but sometimes you may not even know what they do. Sometimes they seem like they would be cool, but because you have no idea what they do, you have a pretty poor opinion of them.

A friend once told me that one of their Facebook friends was a drug addict who kept going to the same bars and clubs and never had a job.

Another friend had a cat that was so obsessed with her that she would run up to her and touch it as if it was a pet.

While this does happen, it's not really that often. More often than not, I think it comes from the fact that many of the people we don’t know are the same people we know. If a friend is a drug addict and the same with a cat, well… we’ve met before.

But I think the problem is that many people feel they have to be friends with people in order to be friends with them. So, if I was friends with that drug addict friend, I have to be friends with that drug addict friend. If I like that cat, I have to like that cat. Well, it's just not that simple. The same goes for friends. It's not that I have to like your friend for you to like him, I just want them to like me.

This is pretty common, but it’s not the way to do it.

Friends should be friends for the same reason you like them. That’s it. If you don’t like them, then you’re not going to like them. Friends are not just friends. Friends are friends because they want to be friends. But to do it, you have to like them. And you have to like them because they like you.

I mean its not that I have to like your friend for you to like them, I just want them to like me. And that is what makes it happen. I just hope I can remember this.

In the end, I think we all secretly hate our friends. Sure, we love them unconditionally, but because we hide this from each other, it just makes it harder. We all have things that we would rather not talk about, but we all have to, because we can’t help it. We all love them in our own way, and we each have the ability to see this and act on it.

All we have to do is be honest with ourselves.

It may sound weird, but I do like talking about it. I think everyone secretly hates their friends and doesn't want them to like them. It is a part of who they are. But I can't help it, because it is what I am.


This is something I believe every person has to do, and it may sound weird, but I think it’s what makes everyone unique. When you are all alone, or if you are a part of a group of people, you will all have a desire to be better than you are. We know we all do it, and that others are doing it too. Just being honest about it is a simple way to become more successful.

This is what makes this kind of life fun and interesting.

If you can be honest about it, you can probably find a way to make it more fun. There are many people who don’t care about their friendships or relationships, but they do care about their own life. It’s like the difference between a person who is afraid of their own shadow and a person who is afraid of their own soul.

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